The first moments in this earthly dimension are often pivotal for a soul. Yet, young parents experience these moments through an entirely different lens. To them, the birth of their child feels like a joyous culmination of their hopes — a relief that their baby is finally safe and sound in their arms. But for the soul, this is an entirely different reality. What many fail to realize is that, at the moment of definitive incarnation — during birth — the soul must part with everything it once held dear. From a beloved spiritual family, friends, and mentors to a safe and harmonious environment that felt like home, the soul undergoes a transition that is both beautiful and heartbreaking.
Imagine this: You have lived for years in a close-knit family, surrounded by friends and acquaintances, secure in an environment of familiarity and love. One day, you feel an unshakable inner calling — a deep sense that your true purpose lies elsewhere, in a faraway place. This call stirs both excitement and apprehension. With enthusiasm, you begin preparing for this journey. You immerse yourself in books, attend informational meetings, and plan every detail meticulously. Everything about this new destination feels ideal, even perfect. You convince yourself that this is the path you must take.
However, as the day of departure draws near, doubts begin to surface. Saying goodbye becomes far more difficult than you anticipated. You try to reassure yourself with thoughts of keeping in touch, yet deep down, you know that nothing will ever be the same again. The uncertainty of the future mingles with the pain of leaving behind all that is familiar. You tell yourself this is what you wanted, but a shadow of doubt lingers.
This is the experience of a soul preparing for incarnation. The excitement of the new mingles with the pain of letting go. It is a journey that demands immense courage, as the soul steps into the unknown with only faith as its guide.
The Challenges of Incarnating
For a soul, incarnating into the earthly dimension is an act of profound trust and surrender. It is not merely a physical transition but a spiritual one, marked by a departure from a dimension of love, harmony, and unity into a world of contrasts, dualities, and limitations. The earth, manifesting in the third dimension, can feel cold and threatening to a soul accustomed to boundless freedom and expansion.
Suddenly, the soul finds itself confined to a small, vulnerable body — one that is utterly dependent on others for survival. For souls from the higher spheres, where harmony and love are the norm, this transition can feel particularly jarring. The physical body, with its limitations, represents a stark contrast to the soul’s previous existence of unlimited freedom and interconnectedness.
Parents often assume that a newborn baby cannot think or feel deeply, believing that the child’s actions are purely instinctual: crying when hungry, sleeping when tired. However, this is a misconception. Newborns, while unable to communicate verbally, are deeply connected to their cosmic origins. They retain a profound awareness of the spiritual realm they left behind and the karmic lessons they are here to learn.
Through telepathy, it is possible to engage in extraordinary conversations with these newly incarnated souls. They openly share their fears, frustrations, and memories of their spiritual life. Often, they express a yearning to be understood by their parents, who may be unaware of the depth of their child’s inner world.
The Pain of Separation
One of the most challenging aspects of incarnation is the soul’s separation from its spiritual family. For eons, the soul existed in a realm of unconditional love and unity, surrounded by guides, mentors, and loved ones. This spiritual environment provided a sense of safety and belonging that is difficult to replicate on earth.
The moment of departure is often accompanied by a profound sense of loss. Even with extensive preparation, the soul feels the weight of saying goodbye to everything it has ever known. This pain lingers long after birth, manifesting as an unconscious longing for something greater — a feeling that many of us describe as a search for purpose or a sense of “home.”
Moreover, the soul’s departure is not a simple process. In my many regression sessions with adults, individuals recall pre-birth moments where their souls hesitated at the last moment. The realization of leaving behind their spiritual family and stepping into an earthly body often evokes feelings of fear and resistance. Often the incarnating soul is begging not having to go. In some cases, guides must gently “push” the soul into incarnation to complete the transition.
The Transition and Its Challenges
When the incarnation process is incomplete, the soul may remain partially ungrounded — caught between the cosmic and earthly realms. This state, often referred to as being “ungrounded,” can result in feelings of not belonging, heightened sensitivity, and difficulty adapting to the challenges of earthly life.
These souls often feel like outsiders, struggling to navigate a world that feels harsh and unfamiliar. Yet, with the right guidance and support, they can learn to fully embrace their earthly journey and fulfill their purpose.
For many souls, the pain of separation is compounded by the harsh realities of the physical world. The third dimension, with its contrasts and challenges, can feel overwhelming. The soul, accustomed to the harmony and balance of the higher realms, must now navigate a world of dualities — light and dark, joy and sorrow, love and fear.
The Role of Fear in the Soul’s Journey
Fear is an integral part of the soul’s journey on earth. While it may feel uncomfortable, fear serves a protective function, helping us navigate the uncertainties of life. It connects us to our instincts, encouraging us to grow and evolve.
For a newly incarnated soul, fear is often tied to the pain of separation from its spiritual family. This fear can manifest as a deep sense of loneliness and vulnerability. However, it is through facing these fears that the soul learns its most profound lessons.
The disconnect from the harmony and love of the cosmos creates an intense feeling of solitude. This solitude, while challenging, is also transformative. It pushes the soul to seek healthy connections, both with others and with its own inner wisdom.
A Call for Awareness
As parents and caregivers, it is essential to recognize the depth of a soul’s experience during and after birth. A newborn is not just a physical being but a spiritual one, carrying the memories and wisdom of its cosmic origins.
By cultivating a deeper awareness of the soul’s journey, we can create an environment that nurtures not just the body but the spirit. This requires a shift in perspective — one that honors the soul’s experiences and supports its transition to the earthly realm.
Parents can play a crucial role in this process by fostering a sense of safety, love, and understanding. Simple acts of connection — holding a child, speaking to them with love, and creating a peaceful environment — can have a profound impact on their journey. Parents should understand that their child is so much more understanding and wiser than they seem to be.
The Path to Healing and Growth
Despite the challenges of incarnation, the soul’s journey is one of immense beauty and growth. The pain of separation, the struggles of adaptation, and the lessons of earthly life all serve a higher purpose. They shape the soul, helping it evolve and expand.
For those who feel ungrounded or disconnected, healing is possible. Through practices like meditation, energy work, and soul therapy, it is possible to reconnect with the soul’s core and restore a sense of balance.
Ultimately, the soul’s journey is a testament to its courage and resilience. It is a reminder that even in the face of uncertainty and pain, there is always the possibility for growth, connection, and transformation.
Conclusion
The journey of a soul from the spiritual realm to the physical world is one of profound significance. It is a process marked by both beauty and heartbreak, courage and vulnerability. By understanding and honoring this journey, we can create a world that supports not just the physical but the spiritual well-being of every soul.
Let us approach this sacred transition with awareness, compassion, and love, creating a space where souls can thrive and fulfill their purpose on earth.
Karo-Lynn Reyes